Okay. Let's breathe. You have non-sex shoes, right? If not, you live in New York, there is much shopping to be had. You will find shoes and if needs be something to wear. Um, I say don't try too hard? Like don't suddenly try to be Jackie O or anything. I mean yeah we can't be wearing the tiny skirts and the cleavage revealing stuff to meet mom and dad, but you know, still be Buffy, still dress like Buffy.