"No, no, no," Buffy half laughed and shook her head. "That's not what I meant. I just meant that if we're sparring and you tag me a little harder than you intended to or if the whole sparring thing gets away from you, I'm not gonna cry foul and abuse or whatever. You lose it sparring then we just work with you until you get it back. No harm. No foul." She shrugged. "Different story, different set of rules if we're fighting about something outside of sparring and one of us hauls off and hits the other one. I like the actual combat. It's fun and I'm not going to double standard you. There's no you can't hit me because I'm a girl when I'm fighting like that. You better hit me or at least learn to block what I'm throwing."