Nabbed from Bee of course

[whattingawhat]

You Are Rum

You're the life of the party, and a total flirt You are also pretty picky about what you drink Only the finest labels and best mixed cocktails will do Except if you're dieting - then it's Diet Coke and Bacardi all the way

What Alcoholic Drink Are You?

I like rum but I'm not sure about being the life of the party or a total flirt. Also, I'm just as likely to drink beer or champagne as I am rum. I'm a complicated girl.

Comments

[deep-red-bells.livejournal.com]

It IS sad. But the whole incident just reinforced my belief that I never need to wear white. Seriously. If I ever get married I'll end up wearing red.

Let me see if I can find it...

Here. (http://rubies.com/landingpage.cfm?ItemNumber=888031#) If you click to enlarge the image? It's even freakier looking.

[whattingawhat.livejournal.com]

Oh honey, you and me both. Only I'm not wearing white because freaky deaky dreams always put me in white gowns. I'll wear something...different. Not that I'm thinking about getting married.


OMG That's kinda awesome and kinda scary.

[deep-red-bells.livejournal.com]

Me either. I think, even if things get more serious, they wouldn't change all that much. I don't even think moving in together would be an option. He travels a lot? Someday I might decide to go with him, but, I don't know.

Isn't it? I'd so wear it. I mean, what more damage could you do to it, it's already in shreds.

[whattingawhat.livejournal.com]

Marriage just brings all these other things like the idea of kids and...not to be all downer donna but...growing old probably isn't in the cards so I feels like selling the commitment short. Travelling would be cool and you could still slay. You'd just be international.

Exactly and you look badass.

[deep-red-bells.livejournal.com]

I've told him that...you know, that my odds of living a nice long healthy life are kind of not good. So we're taking what we can get, and neither of us wants kids, ever, and, I don't know. My mom gave me very cynical views of marriage and Julian doesn't seem the type at all, which is so very fine with me. I don't need a piece of paper to know I'm committed, I guess?

We've actually been talking about that...the traveling. He was all "whenever you're ready" which seriously melted me more than a little.

It would look badass! No one would fuck with you in that costume.

[whattingawhat.livejournal.com]

That's really good that you guys are on the same page. I'm not really...cynical of marriage I don't think. I mean...I think it's great when it works out. I think some girly part of me would really like that. It's just not practical for my life.

I think it'd be kind of awesome. You deserve it and there's no reason why you can't.

Seriously. Which is always a good goal to have.

[deep-red-bells.livejournal.com]

It is...there seems to be more same pageness being found, too. It's a bit awesome.

My mom's just been married so so many times that I'm just, ugh. I don't want to even take the risk of being like her.

I keep thinking I'll know when I'm ready. I'm just...not, yet?

[whattingawhat.livejournal.com]

It's very awesome. I'm so happy for you.

...yeah I can see how that would do it. I'm lucky. My mom just epically failed the one time and I don't think it was her failing.

I think you'll know and I don't think you should push it. You have to do something like that in your time.

[deep-red-bells.livejournal.com]

Thanks. It's...so weird. But a good weird.

Aw, I don't mean for it to sound like all marriages fail, I mean, my grandmother loved my grandad like whoa, she missed him SO BAD after he died. They totally would've had the whole lifelong marriage if he hadn't gotten killed. So it does happen, I just think it's kinda rare.

I think so too, and Boy is major with the understanding of that.

[whattingawhat.livejournal.com]

I understand that.

Oh I know. I'm sure some of them work out. Despite everything Danny's parents seem to be totally in love and they've been married for ages. I think it's pretty rare too and I know what my success rate for relationships period is, I'm not going to push it by shoving a marriage into the whole deal. Besides, Danny's a bad Catholic, thank PB&J, we're both pretty happy just the way things are and his parents don't seem to care that his a bad Catholic.

Points for Boy.

[deep-red-bells.livejournal.com]

Dude, I wish I did.

HA, I'm a bad Catholic too! He and I should definitely hang! Like, I don't care what the Pope says, I? Will be on the pill until the doctor tells me it's no longer necessary, if I indeed live that long. In which case I will be on it until I die.

Boy and Boyfriend are racking up the points lately, aren't they?

[whattingawhat.livejournal.com]

You two will get along great! Oh God I didn't even figure in the whole birth control thing. Yeah, definitely pro-birth control. I do not think I'm fit to bring a kid into this world, and I'm not sure the world is fit to bring one into either.

They are! It's kinda awesome.